Managing Stress for Dog Owners

A professional content writer by the name of Ryan Goodchild contacted me about me posting an  article he had written on how to manage stress for dog owners. The title of the article is “How to Manage Stress Naturally with Simple Daily Habits”  and you can see the article below. Ryan wrote the article and I provided pictures.

Dogs can calm your nerves as well as cause some stress. Our mini Australian Shepherd Rollo chewing up my shoe. Our Leonberger dog Bronco clears tables with his cone. Our mini Australian Shepherd harassing our Leonberger dog and biting his tail. Our Leonberger and our Pug raiding the kitchen and eating the gingerbread house. Our Japanese Chin Ryu and Pug Daisy staging a protest against us travelling. Our Leonberger dog is trying to sit in my wife’s lap.

How to Manage Stress Naturally with Simple Daily Habits

Busy dog owners who are already juggling work, family schedules, and a million small decisions often find themselves struggling with stress management and hoping things will just calm down a bit. The hard part is that stress rarely comes from one big event; it builds from sources of stress like constant notifications, unresolved conflicts, money worries, or even a packed calendar that never resets. Without recognizing stress triggers, it’s easy to treat the noise instead of the cause, and the stress impact on wellbeing can show up as irritability, poor sleep, or feeling stuck in overdrive. Spotting what actually sets stress off turns a vague problem into something that can be handled.

A Leonberger dog with a powerful bite crushing a laptop could be one of many sources of stress. Illustration by Naomi Rosenblatt.

Try Gentle Stress-Relief Modalities

When you can name what’s contributing to your stress levels, it’s easier to choose the right tool for the moment.

  • Breathwork: slow, steady breathing practices that help your body downshift.
  • Mindfulness: simple attention training to reduce mental spirals.
  • Rhodiola rosea supplements: may help support energy levels, mental focus, and resilience to everyday stress and fatigue.
  • Essential oils: calming scents used through diffusion or a personal inhaler (skip skin use unless properly diluted).
  • THCa: a hemp-derived option some people explore; if you’re curious, you can read more about a THCa cartridge.
You can see the paws and bandaged legs of our Leonberger dog on the right. Our mini-Australian Shepherd is standing on the left.
Putting bandages on the legs of our injured Leonberger dog Bronco. This is a stressful situation, but our mini-Australian Shepherd Rollo is calmly observing and learning.

Understanding Your Stress Response

Stress is your body’s built-in alert system, not a personal failure. The Cleveland Clinic calls it a natural reaction to changes or challenges, and it can show up in your thoughts, feelings, and actions. When you learn your early signals, you can separate “I’m stressed” from “something is wrong with me.”

This matters because stress patterns are often predictable. Spotting your common causes of stress and your most frequent symptoms helps you choose the right support faster and recover sooner. It also keeps you from treating every bad day like a character flaw.

Picture a typical morning: a late start, nonstop notifications, and a tense conversation. Your shoulders climb, your patience drops, and you reach for caffeine or scrolling. That’s your cue to connect the trigger and the response, then adjust. The same pattern recognition can help you notice stress signals in your pets, too.

On the left is a picture of a wolf. The text says “Canis Lupus, the grey wolf is a fearsome and courageous hunter in nature.”  On the right is our mini-Australian Shepherd sitting in a stroller. The text says “Canis Lupus familiaris, the dog, a close relative of the grey wolf, is sometimes less brave. This specimen prefers to sit in a stroller when he hears strange sounds.”
Dogs get stressed out too. Our mini-Australian Shepherd get stressed out by strange sounds and when we had a stroller with us, he wanted to sit in the stroller when he heard strange sounds. Unfortunately, this is probably not an option for you.

Calm Together: Reduce Stress for You and Your Dog

Once you start noticing how stress shows up in your body and habits, it’s easier to see how it can ripple out to the beings around you, especially your dog. Dogs are keen observers, and a shift in your schedule, voice, or body language can register as “something’s off.” Calm, family-oriented breeds like Leonbergers often mirror the mood of the home, so when you’re rushed, inconsistent, or tense, they may become more clingy, withdrawn, restless, or reactive.

The good news is that the same steady routines that help you feel grounded can help your dog feel safe. Regular walks burn off nervous energy for both of you, and consistent feeding and sleep times make the day more predictable. Add a little quiet bonding time, sitting together, gentle attention, an unhurried presence, and create a calm space where your dog can settle when the house feels busy.

A pretty dark-haired Caucasian girl in a plaid shirt hugs her cute Leonberger dog, concept of friendship and loyalty
Calm, family-oriented breeds like Leonbergers often mirror the mood of the home. Shutter Stock Asset id: 1741753382 by Elena Podrezenko

Daily Stress-Soothing Habits You Can Repeat

These habits work because they are simple enough to repeat on busy days, which helps your nervous system learn what “safe and settled” feels like over time. Pick one or two, practice them consistently, and let the routine support both you and your home.

Two-Minute Breath Reset
  • What it is: Do six rounds of 30-second deep breathing while sitting comfortably.
  • How often: Daily, or before stressful moments.
  • Why it helps: Slow breathing lowers body tension and helps your mind re-center.
Light-and-Move Morning Start
  • What it is: Get daylight, drink water, and take a 10-minute easy walk.
  • How often: Most mornings.
  • Why it helps: Movement and light support energy, mood, and calmer focus.
Workday Boundary Check
  • What it is: Choose a clear stop time and do a 3-minute tidy reset.
  • How often: Weekdays.
  • Why it helps: A clean ending reduces rumination and protects your evening.
Stress-Smart Plate
  • What it is: Build meals with protein, fiber, and a color, then snack intentionally.
  • How often: Daily.
  • Why it helps: Stable blood sugar can reduce jitters and irritability.
Screen-Free Wind-Down
  • What it is: Put your phone away and do a short stretch or shower.
  • How often: Nightly, last 30 minutes.
  • Why it helps: Less stimulation helps your body shift toward sleep.
A big brown Leonberger dog lying on his back on a leather sofa.
When you are relaxed your dog can relax. This is our Leonberger dog Bronco splayed out on the leather sofa.

Stress-Relief Questions People Ask Most

Q: How do I choose a relaxation technique that actually works for me?
A: Pick the one you will realistically repeat, not the “perfect” method. Start with something low-friction like slow breathing, a short walk, or gentle stretching, then notice what changes first: sleep, irritability, or focus. If you hate a technique, it is okay to swap it.

Q: Why do I feel worse when I try to relax?
A: This is more common than people realize, especially if you have been running on adrenaline for a long time. Try a lighter version: shorter sessions, eyes open, or movement-based calming like walking. If panic spikes, pause and choose grounding actions like naming five things you see.

Q: When I miss a day, should I start over?
A: No, you are practicing a skill, not passing a test. Restart with the smallest version of your habit and anchor it to something you already do, like after brushing your teeth. Consistency over time matters more than streaks.

Q: When is professional support the safest next step?
A: Reach out if stress is affecting sleep for weeks, causing frequent panic, or leading you to rely on alcohol, drugs, or self-harm thoughts. A clinician can help you build a plan that protects both your body and mind. If you ever feel unsafe, seek urgent help right away.

This was a stressful situation. Our Leonberger dog Bronco, wearing a cast chased our neighbor and his Corgis down the street. He was limping badly but wanted a walk so we took him outside just for a little bit. We did not think he needed a leash in his condition, but it turned out he could run. He was not supposed to bump his cast and not chase neighbors either. Illustrations by Naomi Rosenblatt.

Small Habits, Lasting Calm

Managing stress naturally does not require a complete lifestyle overhaul. By learning to recognize your stress triggers, understanding how your body responds, and building a few simple, repeatable habits into your day, you can create more resilience and balance over time. Whether you find relief through breathwork, mindful routines, supportive supplements, or simply creating calmer rhythms for yourself and your family, consistency matters more than perfection. Small daily actions can add up to meaningful changes, helping you navigate life’s challenges with greater clarity, energy, and peace of mind.

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Author: thomasstigwikman

My name is Thomas Wikman. I am a software/robotics engineer with a background in physics. I am currently retired. I took early retirement. I am a dog lover, and especially a Leonberger lover, a home brewer, craft beer enthusiast, I’m learning French, and I am an avid reader. I live in Dallas, Texas, but I am originally from Sweden. I am married to Claudia, and we have three children. I have two blogs. The first feature the crazy adventures of our Leonberger Le Bronco von der Löwenhöhle as well as information on Leonbergers. The second blog, superfactful, feature information and facts I think are very interesting. With this blog I would like to create a list of facts that are accepted as true among the experts of the field and yet disputed amongst the public or highly surprising. These facts are special and in lieu of a better word I call them super-facts.

32 thoughts on “Managing Stress for Dog Owners”

  1. I’ve gotten several different grounding techniques from EMDR that I practice regularly, which helps with stress/anxiety after The Event (although so far nothing has put a dent in the hypervigilance, but that’s a real toughie). I have a reminder on my watch that comes up every day and tells me to do it, which I guess could cause stress in itself, but doesn’t lol

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    1. It sounds like you had a traumatic event in your past. I am sorry about that. Well I can guess what it is (the aneurysm). It is great that you have a technique that works for you. Thank you very much for your comment James.

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  2. Excellent post Thomas. We have found controlled breathing and some music helps relax us and in turn relaxes Maya. We are lucky in that so far she has adapted to the main issues, thunder, fireworks, loud noises etc. Medical issues have been few, but we are with her 24/7 which we think helps.

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  3. Good tips for stress relief, with our without dogs. Our rescue dog has anxiety, and was on medication for awhile, but now that she’s older (about 6), she’s mellowed out a bit. Her “mom”, not so much, so I’ll pay more attention to this advice. 🙂 I love that you added your photos and other personal touches into this guest article, Thomas. That photo of Bronco sprawled out on the couch is smile-worthy. 😀

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words Debbie. Ryan is a good content writer and I am glad you thought it was good tips. Anxiety in dogs is a common problem. Our Leonberger dog did not seem to have any anxiety but our Rollo is certainly making up for it.

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    1. Ha ha that is good idea. I am sorry your cat threw up on the carpet. I don’t have cats but I think that is a pretty common occurance with cats. There are advantages and disadvantages with all pets I guess.

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      1. It is not uncommon. He’s usually something of a gentleman and tosses his cookies in the linoleum. Not today. We had the carpet cleaned a week ago. That’s how these things go. 🤷‍♀️

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  4. Excellent article with sound suggestions. Having taught stress management groups, I know a lot of these things. It always helps to have reminders to USE these techniques. Dogs really like routine and so do I. The easy ten-minute walk works well for me. We do that after dinner with Marley and our new girl, Georgia.

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    1. Yes you are right JoAnna. Dogs can sense stress and our Rollo is hyper sensitive to stress, which was apparent yesterday when I was stressed out. I need to apply these techniques myself.

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  5. Hi Thomas, this is a really interesting read and rather unexpected in the context of dog ownership. It is true that pets can be very calming but they can sometimes create stress. Luckily mine haven’t often been a cause of stress but rather a therapy for stress.

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    1. Yes you are right, some dogs like our Leonberger Bronco was very calm and he could calm us all down. Rollo on the other hand is anything but calm He is full of energy, anxiety, and explosions of emotion, but he is a very funny and loving dog, and we love him to death. It is great that all your dogs have been like therapy for stress. I think that is often the case.

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